Guides

Companion Guides

Original reference material to read alongside the archive: safety, negotiation, aftercare, and terminology.

Safety Basics

Core principles for risk-aware play, nerve and circulation monitoring, and emergency readiness.

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Negotiation Checklist

A practical frame for discussing limits, activities, signals, and aftercare before a scene.

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Aftercare Guide

How to land safely, handle drop, debrief, and take care of each other after play.

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Glossary

Quick definitions of common BDSM, rope, and kink terms found across the archive.

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Anatomy & Arousal

How bodies respond: nerve maps, arousal cycles, and why touch lands differently on different people.

Fingering Fundamentals

Hands, fingers, and the first hospital-level anatomy lesson nobody got.

G-Spot & Internal Touch

What the G-spot actually is, and how to search without a treasure map.

Cunnilingus: Reading Your Partner

Oral technique basics, and the feedback loop that matters more than any move.

Blowjob Basics: Enthusiasm First

Enthusiasm, comfort, and the hand-mouth combo that carries beginners.

Deep Throat (Advanced)

Advanced oral technique: reflexes, positions, breath, and honest limits.

Squirting (Advanced)

What ejaculation actually is, what it isn't, and how to approach it calmly.

Ridge Lines & Bed Anchors

Rope rail between the bed legs: adjustable anchor points, Prusik attachments, RTTHH hitches.

About these guides

These pages are original companion material for the offline TheDuchy Archive. They are intended for educational purposes and are not a replacement for in-person instruction, qualified mentors, or professional medical or legal advice. Always prioritize consent, communication, and safety in your own practice.